Code of Conduct
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We expect users to conduct themselves respectfully and responsibly when communicating with others. We don't accept abuse or offensiveness in any form, and such behaviour will result in termination of this contract and in turn termination of all the Services provided by FYS.
You agree to use the Website in accordance with the following Code of Conduct:
1. You are solely responsible for any information that you provide when using our Services or to other members you meet through us. You will keep all information provided to you as private and confidential and will not give such information to anyone without the permission of the person who provided it to you;
2. You will not use the Services to engage in any form of harassment or offensive behaviour, including but not limited to the posting of communications, pictures or recordings, which contain libellous, slanderous, abusive or defamatory statements, or racist, pornographic, obscene, or offensive language;
3. When communicating with members offline on any social media or messaging platforms. The following is a list of what we do not allow:
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• No abuse, threats or harassment of any kind
• No sexual or immoral talk that runs against the values of this community - please keep it clean
• No requests for money or offering money
• No scamming, or attempts to deceive or manipulate
• No soliciting of business or promoting services
4. You will not use the Website to infringe the privacy rights, property rights, or other civil rights of any person;
5. You will not post messages, pictures or recordings or use the Website in any way which violates, plagiarizes or infringes upon the rights of any third party, including but not limited to any copyright or trademark law, privacy or other personal or proprietary rights, or is fraudulent or otherwise unlawful or violates any law. Your use of the Services provided by this Website is for your own personal use.
6. You will not use these Services to distribute, promote or otherwise publish any material containing any solicitation for funds, advertising or solicitation for goods or websites.
Safety Tips
Meeting new people is exciting, but you should always be cautious when interacting with someone you don’t know. Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person. While you can’t control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help you stay safe during this experience.
• Never Send Money or Share Financial Information
Never send money, especially over wire transfer, even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash — it’s nearly impossible to reverse the transaction or trace where the money went. Never share information that could be used to access your financial accounts. If another user asks you for money, report it to us immediately.
• Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behaviour
You know when someone’s crossed the line and when they do, we want to know about it. Block and report anyone that violates our terms. Here are some examples of violations:
• Requests for money or donations
• Underage users
• Harassment, threats, and offensive messages
• Inappropriate or harmful behaviour during or after meeting in person
• Fraudulent profiles
• Spam or solicitation including links to commercial websites or attempts to sell products or services
You can report any concerns about suspicious behaviour from and about any profile.
Meeting in Person
• Don’t Rush
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet. Don’t be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags or personal dealbreakers. A phone or video call can be a useful screening tool before meeting.
• Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Meet for the first few times in a populated, public place — never at your home, your date’s home, or any other private location. If your date pressures you to go to a private location, end the date.
• Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Tell a friend or family member of your plans, including when and where you’re going. Have your cell phone always charged and with you.
• Be in Control of Your Transportation
We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your date so that you can leave whenever you want. If you’re driving yourself, it’s a good idea to have a backup plan such as a ride-share app or a friend to pick you up.
• Know Your Limits
Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically — they can impair your judgment and your alertness. If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you’re comfortable with, hold your ground and end the date.
• Don’t Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended
Know where your drink comes from and know where it is always — only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odourless, colourless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you.
• If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave
It’s okay to end the date early if you’re feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it’s encouraged. And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.